Over the years of IF I have met many people and created many new friends. I will fully admit I have bitter moments but they don’t happen very often anymore. About a week ago I had a bitter moment because it seemed everyone on Facebook was pregnant again. While I am 100% 98% happy that we are not pregnant or planning to cycle anytime soon but that little bit of jealousy or bitterness sneaks up on me.
While my IF friends some still in the trenches and others have graduated can still be very bitter and judgments of our so-called “fertile friends.” We are surrounded by fertile people or the single people who are surrounded by married people. There are just things we suck at for me it is getting pregnant. I am just done with bitterness because it brings me down to dark places and I love the light. I love my family and the many blessing it has given me. I want to leave the bitterness behind and focus on the future.
